~这就是爱情~

爱 的感觉，总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜，
总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担，
你终於不再孤单了，至少有一个人想著你、恋著你，
不论做什么事情，
只要能一起，就是好的，
但是慢慢的，随著彼此的认识愈深，
你开始发现了对方的缺点，
於是问题一个接著一个发生，
你开始烦、累，甚至想要逃避，
有人说爱情就像在捡石头，
总想捡到一个适合自己的，
但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢？
*她适合你，那你又适合她吗?
其实，爱情就像磨石子一样，
或许刚捡到的时候，你不是那么的满意，
但是记住人是有弹性的，
很多事情是可以改变的，


*在某个聚餐的场合, 有人提议多吃点虾子对身体好， 这
时候有个中年男人忽然说「十年前，当我老婆还是我的女朋友的时候，她说要吃十只
虾，我就剥二十只给她！ 现在，如果她要我帮她剥虾壳，开玩笑！我连帮她脱衣服都
没兴趣了，还剥虾壳咧！

*听到了吗？明白了吗？
难怪越来越多人只想要谈一辈子的恋爱，却迟迟不肯走入婚姻。
因为，婚姻容易让人变得懒惰。
如果每个人都
懒得讲话、
懒得倾听、
懒得制造惊喜、
懒得温柔体贴，
那么夫妻或是情人之间，
又怎么会不渐行渐远渐无声呢？
所以请记住：
有活力的爱情，
是需要适度殷勤灌溉的，
谈恋爱，更是不可以偷懒的喔！

*有一对情侣，相约下班後去用餐、逛街，可是女孩因为公司会议
而延误了， 当她冒著雨赶到的时候已经迟到了30多分钟， 他的男朋友很不高兴的说：
你每次都这样，现在我甚么心情也没了， 我以後再也不会等你了！ 刹那间，女孩终於
决堤崩溃了， 她心里在想：或许，他们再也没有未来了

*同样的在同一个地点，另一对情侣也面临同样的处境； 女孩赶到
的时候也迟到了半个钟头，他的男朋友说：我想你一定忙坏了吧！ 接著他为女孩拭去
脸上的雨水，并且脱去外套盖在女孩身上， 此刻，女孩流泪了, 但是流过她脸颊的泪
却是温馨的。

你体会到了吗？
*其实爱、恨往往只是在我们的一念之间！

爱不仅要懂得宽容更要及时， 很多事可能只是在於你心境的转变
罢了！
懂了吗？
当有个人爱上你，而你也觉得他不错。
那并不代表你会选择他。
*我们总说：我要找一个你很爱很爱的人，才会谈恋爱。
但是当对方问你，怎样才算是很爱很爱的?

你可能无法回答他，因为你自己也不知道。

*没错，我们总是以为，我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。
可是後来，当我们猛然回首，我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。
假如从来没有开始，你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢？
其实，很爱很爱的感觉，是要在一起经历了许多事情之後才会发现
的。
或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣，
但是你有没有想过在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久
了，只是你没发 觉而已呢？
所以，还是仔细看看身边的人吧！
他或许已经等你很久喽！

*当你爱一个人的时候，爱到八分绝对刚刚好。
所有的期待和希望都只有七八分；剩下两三分用来爱自己。
如果你还继续爱得更多，很可能会给对方沉重的压力，让彼此喘不
过气来， 完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。

*所以请记住，
喝酒不要超过六分醉，
吃饭不要超过七分饱，
爱一个人不要超过八分

*那天朋友问我：到底该怎么做才算是爱一个人呢？
我笑著跟他说：其实每个人的爱情观都不一样，说对了叫开导，但
就怕说错反倒变成误导。那就糟糕了！

*如果你也正在为爱迷惘，或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示：
爱一个人，要了解，也要开解；
要道歉，也要道谢；
要认错，也要改错；
要体贴，也要体谅；
是接受，而不是忍受；
是宽容，而不是纵容；
是支持，而不是支配；
是慰问，而不是质问；
是倾诉，而不是控诉；
是难忘，而不是遗忘；
是彼此交流，而不是凡事交代；
是为对方默默祈求，
而不是向对方诸多要求；
可以浪漫，但不要浪费；
可以随时牵手，但不要随便分手。

I appreciate the life which God gave me...
I appreciate that I have anything that I want...
And I do really appreciate that I had a peace,wonderful,touch,memories in my life...

Sometimes I will feel that why I having this kind of stressful life
But it will be happen with this feeling when I'm feel upset....

I just realized that acually the world is that pretty....
The sky is blue....
The sun is bright....
The wind blew by....
It is a wonderful day....

And today is such a wonderful day for me too....
which my teachers,my fellow friends,my parents....
All of them treat me just as like a treasure...=)

I feel like I'm the prices at the moment suddenly...^_^
By the way,Thank you to everyone....
Love the way with peace....
Love the way with smile.....
Love the way with kindness.....
And Love the way that Jesus do really Love ME~

well,May be I'm not that hate piano...
Just because of my mood,my sensitive....
It would be make me become worse....
But I will control myself hard...
To be a sunshine and strong girl....
Thanks for those who support me a lot till the end...
I'm very honor to having you guys be my Lovely friends...
It warm me up....

♥Thank You My Lord ♥

♥ Thank You To My Lovely Friends♥
♥Thank You To My Lovely Family ♥
♥And Thank You to those who really are my true listener ♥

*^_^*

♥ ♥ LovE Is ComplicateD ♥ ♥

omg!!!! two weeks didn't have update my blog...hahaha..hmm,seems like I'm really busy huh...

21/9( Monday)
I had a youth group committee training camp at my church..we had a lot of fun there...we learned a lot n enjoyed n appreciated it very much... Thanks for Teacher Bernard who teaching us a lot to how to be a great leader as well..And the next day evening,we went to teacher Bernard's house having BBQ...FUN FUN FUN!!! we watched movie n eat a lot..hahaha...^_^..enjoyed on that day~

yo~...a family...=)

BBQ-ing..hahaha^_^

^_^

Smile~

yummy~hehe..

26/9( Saturday )

today is the day of our committees' assume office ...hmm,is the time to serve God~..We r all ready to serving God ...=))

our youth committees~=))

~my church committees~

^_^

committees of other churchs

all of the committees=))

27/9 ( Sunday )

The evening, I went to eat my dinner with russel , kelvin , huong

and my sis since they just finished watching movie at pakson...after dinner,kelvin said want go to my house for a look..lolx...so after I finished changing clothes, Russel fetched me to the GCM because I need to attend a mini concert which I already promised my best friend to attend it...My dear eve.wong was singing..hehehe...and my singing idol-terrence too...=))....both of them were singing well...well done~ hahax..^^...

eve.wong is singing..hehe..

=))

8/10 (Thursday )

hmm...to9 when my sc tuition having a break,I went to Ice City to enjoy eating the ice with fanny,louis and tan..=))...nice~yum yum~ hahax..^^.. some of my classmates also at there too...then we sang loudly,playing around,laugh here n there n so on...hahahaha..well,I'm sure we were enjoyed it so much!! ^_^...after that,we back to tuition lately...>_<>

~my mango ice~
yummy^_^
~Fanny's d~

hmm...seems like lot of ppl viewing my blog wor~...even my church teacher also..hehehe..=) even I emo they also knew it..hahax...not bad ya~ so care about me...hahahax...Then I must and hope I won't let them down...~
However,just be yourself....doesn't matter how people look at you...just trust yourself because you can do it...=)) hahax...

no worry...
relax~
no anger...
be peace~
no nervous..
be confident~
& be yourself~

I'm moody....and I felt hurt....
tear drop by....
heart bleeding....not cause of love,not cause of everything...
but it just cause of my problem...
no measure to solve it....

headache...heart pain...
seems like the knife just insert to my heart...
no one can understand me...
even my parents....
even my family..

I just want to cry...
It always make me feel better...
feel good...
but still it always let me facing the worst..
I can't handle it anymore..

I always try to fly off the handle...
try to let off my feeling...
but still...no one understand me...

I always feel alone...
alone walk through my life...
seems like I grown in a colorless life...

But once again...
I heard GOD voice...
I heard that he is comforting me..
when I feel alone,hopeless,unhappy.....
He just always beside me...
He love me....
Thanks my Lord...

I always need you my Lord...
may all the faith with God...
you are my seek asylum..
you r the light which light up my future...

~Emo~

Today i miss out one thing which is my class having a BBQ at tanjung this morning...I"m quite regret that I didn't have joined them..
Acually it was because of my dad don't let,want me stay at home...n another reason is the worst guy was going so I better don't go...hmm..well,surely they have a lot of fun there~when I saw their gathering pic...I'm getting touch...the pic let me feel that we r just a big happy playful family~^_^ain't it is a wonderful memories?!?!..='))...well,I always appreciate that I have this group of friends together play around,sharing around & caring each others...we r always family~^_^..
although I'm not joining them..but I still feel happy with them because we r 4A1 FAMILY!! ahahahha..cool~

this is the pic which I really get touch~=))